When did everyone start to think I’m too old to wear stylish shoes?”
- Ever done it yourself?
What To Do If You Feel Like You - Ever do it to yourself?
- “I’m too old to learn all this new technology.”
- I missed my chance to be my own boss.
- “There are rules about how a woman my age should dress.”
- “I am scared of my future self.”
- “I can only have one child, so if that is not possible…”
- “No! I want the freedom of choice.”
- “For the life of me, I don’t know what to do.”
- “My life has never meant anything to me. I am too old to change it.”
- “I did not come into money to suffer. If the bank does not lend you enough money “If you are going to live then why do we have no choice but to make bad decisions?”
- “I will be alone. I do not like the quiet place, I need to be around people.”
- “It is unfair what my family’s insurance policy tells me. It is unfair to me because I cannot afford whatever they decide for me.”
- “How dare they tell me about how much I can or cannot buy something to give myself. Why? Because I have nothing else but what they decide for me.”
- “I was so lucky to have two parents who were supportive of us. They never pushed us to start doing things on our own.”
- “They were always there for me. But now that’s gone and I am alone.”
- “This is where I will die without them by my side.”
These are just some of the many stories of when you think “I am too old to wear stylish shoes.”
To those of you who have experienced such thoughts, these are common feelings. And yet most of us think that being older means they are more susceptible to problems or less capable of making any decision. However, there are actually some things we are better at than older people, which make them vulnerable.
Let’s take an example. 
old man with memories
You’re in a car when suddenly your vehicle begins to move slower and you notice the speedometer that usually moves higher than usual. Your immediate thought might be one like this:
I am too old to drive a new car.
Well, it turns out you’re right. Older drivers tend to drive newer cars and older vehicles are often much safer to drive, but they also tend to use longer tires and drive differently. All you can do is try your best to be responsible. I understand that sometimes we can only do one thing. Try your best.
A FEAR -Assuming the worst from others-
So next time you think “I am too old to wear stylish shoes,” remember, it’s okay. There is definitely no shame in wearing whatever you want or need to. The biggest mistake you probably make at 40 years old is being afraid, insecure, or even assuming the worst from others. Just remember: We are people too. Don’t let that discourage you from trying different shoes, clothes, and accessories that allow you to express who you are.
When I was twenty-one?
We all have our struggles and trials when we are young. We all have our own paths that we want to take, and this isn’t mine now. With everyone in my life telling me, I am not worth anything the moment I turn twenty-one. I can only hope that I am able to find myself and put myself where I want to be when I am old enough to start my life without anyone else except me.
CONCLUSION AND REMEMBER-
1-Life is a long journey, and some days you just want to sit there crying that your mom passed away and you have not made it past 20. Look after your fellow seniors, keep each other safe and happy. Love this world as it truly is, and thank God that no one else has to go through what I have.
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| Advice from My 80-Year-Old Self_ |
2-I have learned that if you are lucky enough to find love in your life, it is not always the most obvious thing in the world. You may discover that love is all around you, not always easy to recognize. In fact, you may not recognize much love at first, while it surrounds you it is impossible not to notice.
3-Life has taught me so many things not all bad, but some bad that I don’t dare to look at them and try to change or fix what is wrong. One lesson I am learning from life is the reality that I am not responsible for another person's happiness.”
4-I hate that phrase because I am responsible for making another person happy. I am responsible for making other people smile. I am responsible for making sure that they laugh, cry, laugh and smile and feel happy. Just because they made me do something that is difficult for me doesn’t mean that it will be easier for me to make them happy when I do the same.
5-I feel like I am losing the last piece in my existence, but it isn’t true at all. I actually have a very small circle of friends that I love dearly and they have been there all along. My circle of life has so many members and that is very beautiful. A real family that is close-knit and close-knit, that I could talk to forever. But I really don’t want to lose this piece that I have been given.
6- Happiness is always along with life not the end of life.
